Indian Parents

Parents who are sending their boys to school are unaware of the latest threats in the schools their boys are facing. Unlike for girls, the society has not recognized even the existence of dignity and modesty of a boy. Teachers in school have started using a new tactics to punish boys in schools. Humiliate boys. How? Strip them. Yes, strip them. Make the boys stand naked in the school for other students to mock, humiliate and bully them. Could we even imagine the action our society will take if such punishment is meted out on girls? But we are so shameless and so insensitive that we don’t oppose such punishment on boys. How cruel could we get? We have no rights to call ourselves humans. Stripping boys in school in front of other students is worse than rape. Such teachers should be mutilated and sexually assaulted in public.  

Have a look at what is happening to our children (boys). Teachers are raping boys.

A female teacher made three 6-year-old boys stand naked in the school as a punishment. The teacher goes scot-free because she is a woman and the victims are boys, not girls.

http://www.mumbaimirror.com/net/mmpaper.aspx?page=article&sectid=15&contentid=20061224024348187c4ebea93

http://www.mumbaimirror.com/net/mmpaper.aspx?page=article&sectid=2&contentid=2006122603525010918049cb0

A teacher forced a boy to strip in the classroom during examination because she felt he was copying. It was found he was innocent. Would she do the same to a girl? Why not? Why boys are targeted and raped like this? Would you keep quiet if a girl was stripped?  

http://www.deccan.com/home/homedetails.asp#Student%20stripped%20naked

A boy (15 years old) was studying in 9^th standard hangs himself because of harassment from teachers and girl students. Imagine the trauma this boy faced that led him to commit suicide. No, you can’t imagine because you need a heart for that.

http://www.saveindianfamily.org/blogs/2007/03/22/boy-drivento-suicide/

Teachers raping their students. Women expect us to respect their dignity and modesty and in here they are bravely raping young innocent boys.

http://www.nbc10.com/slideshow/news/8670741/detail.html?qs=;s=16;p=news;dm=ss;w=400

(Personally, if this sort of thing would ever happen to my son in the future ever, I would definitely punch the woman and break her face in two half and no surgeon in the world will be able to repair her face.)  

What is happening in our country? What is happening to the teachers? It is important to find out the thought process of these teachers who believe they can sexually abuse boys. Why have they become so inhuman toward boys? There has to be immense hatred for male gender for them to force the boys to strip. These boys are of the age of the teacher’s son, and so you can imagine the nasty despicable mentality these teachers are carrying toward boys of their son’s age. Besides, these days the teachers are concentrating on looking hot instead of teaching their students. Are parents feeling that their boys are safe in schools? Unfortunately, they are least concerned about it. Is it because the victim is not a girl? Is it because we are programmed not to react when a boy becomes a victim? We are so insensitive toward a boy child that we always snub them whenever they come up with their complaint. Mothers obviously won’t understand a boy’s psyche but why is the father hiding behind the curtains like a sissy? Is he waiting for the orders from his wife to protect his son? If he does not react because his wife is disinterested to know the trauma of his son then he better commit suicide before his son does. A boy will be better off without a father who cannot protect him. If parents don’t have the heart to care for their boy child, then it makes perfect sense to dump them in the gutter after birth instead of watching the teachers sexually abuse them in schools and still be quiet. For a boy to be sexually abused is as good as rape. He is getting raped by his teacher and in front of everybody. We just can’t imagine his suffering. Not even the mother will realize the suffering of her boy because nobody has taught her to respect the dignity and modesty of a man.     

We are brought up in such a hypocritical society that dignity and modesty belongs only to a girl even in the midst of raunchy and obscene music videos shown on television. We respect the dignity and modesty of a woman even when we see women proudly flaunting their butt-crack and cleavages. We respect the dignity and modesty of a woman even when we are forced to change the channel in the presence of both, senior citizens as well as a child, when a raunchy scene of a woman showing off her body is coming on the television. We see women wearing bra-less tight t-shirts showing off her cleavage. We see women wearing low-waist jeans showing off her panty and butt-crack. We see women flaunting their thighs. Women are openly and proudly violating their own dignity and modesty and we still want to respect the so-called dignity and modesty of these women. How pathetic!!! And here boys are forced to be naked, and still nobody wants to oppose it. Disgusting mentality! How can we be so hypocritical? A man’s dignity and modesty is never recognized and respected. Women objectified their own body and are blaming it on men, and now women are trying hard to objectify men to humiliate and mock them to flaunt their own sexual superiority over men. And spineless men are enjoying this sexual humiliation. We are turning into animals. First of all, dignity and modesty of a woman is not in a woman, it is in us, in men. And this sentiment toward a woman is being systematically exploited by women to torture men.

Actually in our hearts, we know what women are doing is wrong but we are too scared of opening our mouth. Speaking against women in India is considered as speaking against some religion. Such is our narrow-mind and ridiculous thinking. We are blinded by our own sentiments toward women and women are taking full advantage of it. And we call ourselves educated and civilized citizens. My foot!!! We know women should not be wearing such dirty clothes and we wonder how their parents can allow such dresses. Women have become so boisterous and brutally bold that most senior citizens avoid conversing or interacting with these women. However, we watch senior citizens ogling at hot women in some advertisements, which is derogatory to old men but nobody has the spine to oppose it. It’s really a strange phenomenon happening in our society. In the past, the society sincerely respected women but now they seem to just behave normally in order to hide their disrespect toward women to avoid any unpleasant situation. It’s plain disappointment toward women but nobody is willing to say it. They have lost all hopes from women. This could be one of the reasons why there is female foeticide. Women organizations are thinking that by introducing draconian gender-biased laws, women can be protected. The fact is that such laws are getting misused on a massive scale, men are suffering and so is his family member which also includes women, and because of which women’s status is deteriorating rapidly. Actually women’s status should deteriorate more rapidly and only then the society will understand the real meaning of gender equality.

It’s a shame that a boy is made to stand naked in the school and nobody has opposed it. Even the police are reluctant to register the case against the culprit. The media isn’t raising this issue as seriously as it should have. Would the police and media act so insensitively if a girl would have been a victim? They would have acted immediately against the culprit if a girl would have been a victim. What is the reason? The reason is because it’s a boy, not a girl. How inhuman we are? These heartless people deserve to be hanged. In the pretext of so-called women empowerment, we have lost the humanly feelings toward male gender. We feel nothing toward a male gender. We don’t care if a man is stripped naked, or raped or murdered or brutally beaten up or falsely convicted. We only care about ourselves. It is this mentality which is bringing us closer to destruction. A boy is sexually molested in schools, when he grows up he is exploited by his girlfriend, he gets married and lives with an abusive wife, he gets falsely accused of dowry harassment and pays huge alimony, and in the end he dies even before his parents. This is the life of new generation boys, thanks to our gross insensitivity. Yes, ours and specially yours.

Even the boys should be blamed. The society has always been anti-male. One boy has no respect toward the other boy. When a boy is made to stand naked, why his other male friends did not come forward to help him and support him? If this would have happened to a girl, her female friends would have come and supported her. In this country, men are expected to be hostile with other men and they are hostile with other men but we still hear the deception of feminists about so-called male-chauvinism. Do we really see any man supporting another man? No. But we always see a woman supporting another woman in all circumstances but we fail to call this female chauvinism. Being overly supportive to all women and insensitive to all men is discriminatory. This is our tendency but we never feel guilty.  

There is no brotherhood between men. If a boy tells his friends that his girlfriend slapped him, his friends will mock him and start laughing at him. If a girl tells her friend that his boyfriend slapped her, will her friends mock her and laugh at her? No. Because there is no sensitivity between boys. We have seen incidents in schools where one boy flicks his friend on his crotch to hurt him in fun. Have we seen a girl doing this to another girl? In fact, now girls are finding it interesting to flick on a boy’s crotch for fun and the boy is helpless because he can’t do anything back. Yes, some readers will find this amusing and this proves how inhuman men have become. For a second, place yourself in the position of a boy who is being sexually abused by girls. Most will enjoy the feeling because they are spineless and also most men are part-time unofficial gigolos who are anytime ready to get sexually used by women. Men don’t care about other men and we continue to hear about male chauvinism. We continue to see the unconditional support between women but we never call that female chauvinism. We make fun of other men to impress women. We hit the gymnasium to impress women. We drive the car fast to impress women. Whatever we do is all directed to impress women. Are women doing the same? Are women doing anything to impress men? Women just have to wear some revealing clothes and that’s it; men will go bonkers and will be ready to walk on their hands to grab her attention.

If we want to protect our son, young boys, then be sensitive toward them. Now it is high time we must teach our boys to respect his self and other boys. We must teach him to be more competitive especially with girls. We must teach him to fearlessly complain if somebody tries to violate his privacy, dignity and modesty. We must teach him to be sensitive toward his own feelings. We must teach him to respect his body. In schools, the condition of boys is fast deteriorating. Their educational performance is declining only because of excessive discrimination in schools. Teachers are going out of their sane ways to support girls unconditionally and punish boys without any reason. They are ill-treating boys and also encouraging girls to misbehave with boys. And these boys are gradually losing interests in studies which is why we are seeing girls scoring higher marks than boys. To add insult to injury, the Government is introducing sex education in schools. Parents are glad that their responsibility will be taken over by the teachers but they are only ruining the life of their children. A female teacher should never ever be allowed to teach sex education to boys. We are immature to understand the adverse effects of this on the boy’s mind seeing a female teaching them about sex. Moreover, the girls are bold enough to tease the boys in the class about their anatomy and boys will have to keep quiet in humiliation. And teachers will just look on and smile as if she is hoping to get an orgasm seeing the embarrassment of boys. And parents are heartless enough to ignore the complaints of their son. What a filthy country we are living in!!!!

Do we want our son to be brought up with the trauma inside him of being sexually abused by teachers and girls? You are not sensitive enough to understand the deadly consequences it will have on young boys. Parents must act responsibly and give all the love, affection and support to their boys. If you don’t have the heart to care for your son, then it’s better to kill the male foetus before you ruin his whole life.   

 Other relevant blogs to read.

http://presentindia.blogspot.com/2006/10/boys-too-are-sexually-abus_116201938455319030.html

http://presentindia.blogspot.com/2006/12/indian-teachers.html

http://www.presentindia.blogspot.com/2006/06/can-woman-rape.html

http://presentindia.blogspot.com/2007/01/men-are-getting-molested.html

http://www.presentindia.blogspot.com/2006/05/woman-can-molest-man.html

4:53 AM - Sunday, April 8, 2007